Do you feel fear when you know, intuitively, you need to (gently) enforce a boundary? Oftentimes, we can be scared to set the boundaries that we know (deep down) we need to set … because we don’t want to come across as mean. Or unkind. But, truly, there is ALWAYS a kind way to set a boundary. Boundaries don’t have...

(Please, can we just be kind to each other??). More and more, on the social medias, I get accused of being a ‘selfish millennial’ trying to ‘make a buck’ on my beliefs which are ‘unfounded and helping no one’. Or versions of that.  (That rant in particular was one of the most interesting I have received thus far, and I...

How easy (or not!) do you find it to drop into trust?  Recently I said to a client who is going through an incredibly difficult time, and sitting with a lot of angst, ⠀ ‘If you don’t want to sit in angst, you’ve got to learn to trust’. ⠀ Because, this is what I deeply believe: When we are sitting...

Modern women are struggling – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  In a world where we have more opportunities than ever before, modern women seem to be drowning under the weight of everything we have on our ‘life plates’ – landing us in a space of pain, hormonal disharmony, exhaustion, and disconnection.  So, why is it like this? I wrote a list...

Overwhelm.  For those of us who struggle with it consistently (aka, feeling like you are seriously drowning within your own life), getting out of the mind-space – and into the heart-space – can be a serious challenge. Overwhelm is an insidious ‘ruiner’ of one’s day-to-day experience of life – and I barely know a woman who doesn’t tell me that this is...

If you are conflict-averse (like I used to be), you may find yourself often suppressing your true needs. The thing about learning to honour yourself, is this: You must do the thing that scares you. Most of us wonderful women are kind of SCARED to honour ourselves – because honouring ourselves often means conflict. Truly honouring ourselves can often mean:...

/ Over-committed ⠀ / Over-needed⠀ / Over-available ⠀ ⠀ / Under-slept⠀ / Under-rested ⠀ / Under-nourished ⠀ ⠀ ^^^^ the state of so, so many modern women. Can you relate?? Every woman I work with tells me this is how she is feeling. I watch women in my personal life feel like this. I even feel like this a good...

I’ve had my fair share of rock bottom moments over the years, and I know that you have, too.  Everyone has! The ones that (literally) bring you to your knees, that make you feel as though your spirit is shattered in a million pieces. If there is one thing I honour so much about each and every person I come...

Amazing woman,  Before you were a wife / parent / sister / friend / aunty / colleague / mentor / boss / cook / cleaner / taxi driver / pet owner / AND the many other hats you wear …⠀ ⠀ … you were just YOU. ⠀ You! ⠀ A soul that dropped into a particular body, to particular parents,...

Sacred boundaries … do you have them, and do you honour them?  Do you often find yourself feeling resentful when you look at your schedule, and it occurs to you that: a) you’re either doing way too much in general, or, b) you’re committed to things you never wanted to be doing in the first place? Or, do you feel...