(Please, can we just be kind to each other??). More and more, on the social medias, I get accused of being a ‘selfish millennial’ trying to ‘make a buck’ on my beliefs which are ‘unfounded and helping no one’. Or versions of that.  (That rant in particular was one of the most interesting I have received thus far, and I...

How easy (or not!) do you find it to drop into trust?  Recently I said to a client who is going through an incredibly difficult time, and sitting with a lot of angst, ⠀ ‘If you don’t want to sit in angst, you’ve got to learn to trust’. ⠀ Because, this is what I deeply believe: When we are sitting...

Modern women are struggling – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  In a world where we have more opportunities than ever before, modern women seem to be drowning under the weight of everything we have on our ‘life plates’ – landing us in a space of pain, hormonal disharmony, exhaustion, and disconnection.  So, why is it like this? I wrote a list...

Overwhelm.  For those of us who struggle with it consistently (aka, feeling like you are seriously drowning within your own life), getting out of the mind-space – and into the heart-space – can be a serious challenge. Overwhelm is an insidious ‘ruiner’ of one’s day-to-day experience of life – and I barely know a woman who doesn’t tell me that this is...

If you are conflict-averse (like I used to be), you may find yourself often suppressing your true needs. The thing about learning to honour yourself, is this: You must do the thing that scares you. Most of us wonderful women are kind of SCARED to honour ourselves – because honouring ourselves often means conflict. Truly honouring ourselves can often mean:...

/ Over-committed ⠀ / Over-needed⠀ / Over-available ⠀ ⠀ / Under-slept⠀ / Under-rested ⠀ / Under-nourished ⠀ ⠀ ^^^^ the state of so, so many modern women. Can you relate?? Every woman I work with tells me this is how she is feeling. I watch women in my personal life feel like this. I even feel like this a good...

I’ve had my fair share of rock bottom moments over the years, and I know that you have, too.  Everyone has! The ones that (literally) bring you to your knees, that make you feel as though your spirit is shattered in a million pieces. If there is one thing I honour so much about each and every person I come...

Amazing woman,  Before you were a wife / parent / sister / friend / aunty / colleague / mentor / boss / cook / cleaner / taxi driver / pet owner / AND the many other hats you wear …⠀ ⠀ … you were just YOU. ⠀ You! ⠀ A soul that dropped into a particular body, to particular parents,...

Sacred boundaries … do you have them, and do you honour them?  Do you often find yourself feeling resentful when you look at your schedule, and it occurs to you that: a) you’re either doing way too much in general, or, b) you’re committed to things you never wanted to be doing in the first place? Or, do you feel...

For all the women who constantly say yes when they really want to say no: I see you, I hear you, I feel you! I have always loved to please everybody. Since I was a tiny little girl, I have always known that the more I do for people, and the more I do what other people want of me;...