Do you feel lonely, often? Sometimes, we don’t feel lonely because we have a lack of people around us, but rather, because we are completely disconnected from our true selves.  When this happens, we often try to fill the void with ‘something’ – whatever distracts us from having to address this issue. But when you choose to REALLY get to...

A story about a break-up … 3 months ago today, it was Christmas Day, and I was shattered. On Christmas Eve last year, I broke up from a 6 year de facto relationship – the man I thought I would marry and probably have a child with (even though, deep down, we had both known differently for a little while)....

What (if anything) is making you feel MOST resentful in your life right now? What really ticks you off, makes you feel like you’re a living doormat (getting walked all over), and where do you feel like your boundaries are forever being crossed? Does anything come to mind? If so, I invite you to consider this a sacred message from your...

It can be really hard to trust yourself (your inner knowing, your intuition), in a world that is literally a SEA of noise and opinions. As I personally move through a period of my life that is filled with change and transformation, my mantra lately has had to be (by sheer necessity!), I trust myself. I keep having to come...

Modern women are struggling – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  In a world where we have more opportunities than ever before, modern women seem to be drowning under the weight of everything we have on our ‘life plates’ – landing us in a space of pain, hormonal disharmony, exhaustion, and disconnection.  So, why is it like this? I wrote a list...

Have you ever (finally) taken a leap of faith, or made a long-awaited change, or done something you thought was a little ‘radical’ … and then wished you’d done it SO much sooner? The thing with humans is … Most of us know when we want to (or NEED to) make change …. but we can get stuck when we...

(Please, can we just be kind to each other??). More and more, on the social medias, I get accused of being a ‘selfish millennial’ trying to ‘make a buck’ on my beliefs which are ‘unfounded and helping no one’. Or versions of that.  (That rant in particular was one of the most interesting I have received thus far, and I...

How easy (or not!) do you find it to drop into trust?  Recently I said to a client who is going through an incredibly difficult time, and sitting with a lot of angst, ⠀ ‘If you don’t want to sit in angst, you’ve got to learn to trust’. ⠀ Because, this is what I deeply believe: When we are sitting...

Overwhelm.  For those of us who struggle with it consistently (aka, feeling like you are seriously drowning within your own life), getting out of the mind-space – and into the heart-space – can be a serious challenge. Overwhelm is an insidious ‘ruiner’ of one’s day-to-day experience of life – and I barely know a woman who doesn’t tell me that this is...

If you are conflict-averse (like I used to be), you may find yourself often suppressing your true needs. The thing about learning to honour yourself, is this: You must do the thing that scares you. Most of us wonderful women are kind of SCARED to honour ourselves – because honouring ourselves often means conflict. Truly honouring ourselves can often mean:...